Giving forgiveness

<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"> <a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgpCigJgbJjNiBBOFquu5UXfjVFgXjaB_IaWSvw8T5u_mpbNaIGNqyA709wJVabQJ2p4u3Bo_6dT1gMXFK6Qfc2DcRvC8t2XWe63n-pqEBwHRUB12dvgfTJQxpHdJwyPP2gPW3ElGVIRi0/s1600/contemplation+Collage.jpg.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="139" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgpCigJgbJjNiBBOFquu5UXfjVFgXjaB_IaWSvw8T5u_mpbNaIGNqyA709wJVabQJ2p4u3Bo_6dT1gMXFK6Qfc2DcRvC8t2XWe63n-pqEBwHRUB12dvgfTJQxpHdJwyPP2gPW3ElGVIRi0/s320/contemplation+Collage.jpg.jpg" width="320" /></a></div> <span style="font-family: "courier new" , "courier" , monospace; font-size: large;"><br />Giving forgiveness<br /><br />We should, in the spirit of lovingkindness, be prepared to forgive others when they apologise to us. To withhold forgiveness in order to hurt another person or out of self-righteous anger is an abuse of the other person’s honesty and ethical sensitivity. We’re hardly likely to encourage people to be honest with us if we punish them for it. Of course there may be times when we feel unable to forgive someone instantly, and that’s okay. Genuine forgiveness may take time, and false forgiveness is not a virtue. But we should not withhold forgiveness out of anger or mean-spiritedness. We should give forgiveness as freely as we are able.</span><br /> <div class="zemanta-related" style="clear: both; margin-top: 20px; overflow: hidden;"> <h4 class="zemanta-related-title"> Related articles</h4> <ul class="zemanta-article-ul zemanta-article-ul-image" style="margin: 0; overflow: hidden; padding: 0;"> <li class="zemanta-article-ul-li-image zemanta-article-ul-li" style="background: none; display: block; float: left; font-size: 11px; list-style: none; margin: 2px 10px 10px 2px; padding: 0; text-align: left; vertical-align: top; width: 84px;"><a href="http://childwithinus.blogspot.com/2015/08/the-basis-of-recovery-in-ten-stages-is.html" style="border-radius: 2px; box-shadow: 0px 0px 4px #999; display: block; padding: 2px; text-decoration: none;" target="_blank"><img src="//i.zemanta.com/356892461_80_80.jpg" style="border: 0; display: block; margin: 0; max-width: 100%; padding: 0; width: 80px;" /></a><a href="http://childwithinus.blogspot.com/2015/08/the-basis-of-recovery-in-ten-stages-is.html" style="background-image: none; 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Giving forgiveness

Giving forgiveness We should, in the spirit of lovingkindness, be prepared to forgive others when they apologise to us. To withhold forgiv...

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